Divorce & Life Transition Coaching

You don't have to figure this out alone.

I know how hard it is. It will get better faster than you think, with the right support of an ally by your side.

Free — no obligation, fully confidential

Who This Is For

Wherever you are in the process,
you don't have to go it alone.

Considering Divorce

You're weighing your options but don't know where to start. You need clarity on the process, the costs, and what life looks like on the other side.

In the Middle of It

Lawyers, paperwork, co-parenting decisions, asset splits — it's overwhelming. You need a strategic guide to help you stay focused on what matters.

Rebuilding After

The decree is signed but life still feels unsettled. You need help with the transition — new routines, co-parenting, finances, and rediscovering who you are.

How It Works

A clear path through the chaos.

Every situation is different, but the framework stays the same. We work through it together, at your pace.

Clarity

Before anything else, we get clear on what you actually want — not what you're angry about, not what someone told you to do. Your priorities, your non-negotiables, your vision for the other side.

Team Assembly

Lawyer, mediator, therapist, financial advisor — who do you need and who's missing? I help you build the right team and make sure everyone is pulling in the same direction.

Strategy

Collaborative, mediated, or litigated? What's your custody approach? How do you handle the house? We build a strategy that fits your situation, not a one-size-fits-all playbook.

Negotiation Support

I help you prepare for hard conversations, review proposals, and gut-check decisions before you make them. Think of it as a strategic sounding board when the stakes are highest.

Transition Planning

Housing, finances, co-parenting logistics, identity rebuild. The practical side of starting your next chapter — mapped out, not left to chance.

Stabilization

The first 90 days after it's final are critical. We stay connected to make sure the plan holds, adjust what needs adjusting, and ensure you land on solid ground.

About

Meet Aldo

Warm guidance.
Honest advice.
Empathy.

I'm not a lawyer, therapist, or mediator. I'm the person in your corner who helps you see clearly when everything feels overwhelming — and then helps you do something about it.

I've walked this road myself. I know what it feels like to face impossible-seeming decisions while the ground shifts underneath you. That experience, combined with years of guiding others through it, is what I bring to every conversation.

My job is simple: help you make better decisions, faster, with less collateral damage — to your finances, your kids, and yourself.

Fluent in English, Spanish & Dutch

Clear boundaries: I don't give legal advice, provide therapy, or take sides. I'm a strategic guide and accountability partner who helps you show up prepared — for meetings, negotiations, and the life waiting on the other side.

What Clients Say

Real stories from real turning points.

The financial uncertainty of divorce was incredibly overwhelming for me, but Aldo stepped in and changed everything. In just one hour, he used professional tools and clear spreadsheets to map out my entire post-divorce financial landscape. Seeing the numbers laid out in a logical flowchart gave me the sense of stability and safety I was missing. He handles the complex 'heavy lifting' so you can breathe again.

Audrey, Canada

I was hesitant about divorce coaching, but Aldo's approach changed everything. He helped me move from a place of uncertainty to feeling empowered and in control of my next steps. His support is practical, compassionate, and truly life-changing.

Chelsey, Canada

If you are struggling with the 'what-ifs' of divorce, I cannot recommend Aldo enough. He has a brilliant way of taking complex legal guidelines and family law calculators and turning them into a clear, easy-to-understand financial plan. What would have taken me months of stress, he wrapped up in a couple of hours using precise flowcharts and spreadsheets. He provides the practical roadmap you need to feel secure about your future.

Kathryn, Canada

Aldo gave me thoughtful and insightful perspectives to support my journey through divorce. His own personal experience coupled with a deep understanding of tools and actions to position yourself for a more manageable and successful divorce were invaluable. I would recommend Aldo from My Ally to anyone seeking such support. Thanks Aldo!

Antonio, Spain

* Some names have been changed to protect privacy

For Professionals

Better-prepared clients
make your job easier.

I work alongside lawyers, therapists, mediators, and financial advisors — not in competition with them.

For Family Lawyers

Your clients show up more organized, emotionally regulated, and focused on outcomes instead of grievances. That means fewer wasted billable hours and better results.

For Therapists

I handle the strategic and logistical side so you can focus on the emotional work. We complement each other — your client gets both support systems without overlap.

For Mediators

Coached clients come to mediation knowing their priorities, understanding trade-offs, and ready to negotiate. Smoother sessions, better agreements.

For Financial Advisors

I help clients understand what they need financially before they sit down with you — so your time together is focused on solutions, not education.